Destiny....

Don't you feel that Sometimes things are not intended to happen but they still end up happening,then i hear people saying that it was in the destiny to happen.So do u believe in this destiny thing,do you believe that everything in your life happens for a reason?? that your life is predestined and its just that you will end up with a life that was written for you. Well i don't but is this the true meaning of Destiny or is it just a myth???
Well i like to say its just a Myth...but only partly...I believe that our life is predestined,it is believed what our actions might be and thus our life would had taken shape.But its is our actions which change the course of our life,Its our attitude to do things to see it and to react to it that makes the difference.I believe that Destiny is what we make of it.Its about what decisions we make in our life which makes our life to take a complete u-turn and go the other way round.
People say that these two are destined to meet each other so they are that much happy.I say would it have been possible that if they wouldn't have meet,even if feel that they meet accidentally at the restaurant,what if 1 of them never thought of going there.So even if it was destiny that they meet it couldn't have done it alone...they both still had to go to that restaurant,they still had to show up...
In short I just wanna say that destiny is the bridge you build on the path you want to be.If u wanna be a doctor you got to get into medical that's the bridge you build. If you feel that you were destined to love that someone special then destiny was the bridge you built towards the 1 you love,until you would had made it it wouldn't have happened,Isn't it True.
But it isn't always that you desire for something and those thing s just happen with a Whosp!!!....Sometimes it just happens that you want something really badly and desire for it but it is sort of unreachable,you really can accept that you weren't destined to get that thing or you can go for the impossible and make it happen and rewrite what was written for you.Sometimes you don't get a job but you still know that no-one was better suited for it,then you must have a go for it till you get it.When you know that you love someone then make her realize that no one can love her that much so that you win her heart.
I always believe that our destiny isn't already written, its just that our life course keeps on changing on the decisions which we make in Life may it be good or bad,people do eventually face what they have did.So its on how we take things,on how we react to disappointments and stand up tall to make ourselves count. So i would say that yes it your destiny to get the rose, but it is also your destiny to be pricked.
So in the end i will say that Yes Destiny exists but it is no Miracle mongol which will make a path for you,its upto you that if you desire to lead to it.But i also wanted to add that

whatever happens happens for the good..

..thats what my Bro says....